Issues of transition and potential plan/solutions

Once I "change clothes", which is pretty much a spiritual decision I made for practical and cathartic reasons, who will be there to oversee my transition and make sure I have resources to continue living safely?

How do I make my mother and social workers calm down after they find out the old me has vanished and that they won't recognize me? I'll stay away from them for a while. I will just probably send agents, officers or spokespersons to speak for my situation to them. But also, there's one catch; my current legal identity may have to be declared legally declared missing or deceased if it's permanent. Or something similar. If I stay on Earth part time under a new meat suit, under a new name and birth certificate, and have my old self pronounced missing/dead, then I can't go back. I hate it so much that this may emotionally hurt those I know who are not in the know, at least temporarily, but, my "mission" is more important. It's my escape card - the golden ticket. Sorry. My mother has already imagined the scenario of me vanishing with aliens and this really would make her depressed. But I will come back, soon after, just with a new face.

I want them to be prepared for this kind of situation, but I will perhaps be under a temporary NDA which also affects the spokespeople's ability to inform my mother and social workers.

I think I might get a schedule as to when I transition. So I have no choice but to make it arrive as a surprise, but also inform others that I will be away for a while - and then, the news come up.

So, I want to have two avatars I can transfer back and forth to, ideally.

See how carefully I gotta plan all this stuff?

So here is my possible solution: I'll basically have to inform someone that I'll be going through a 'study program' for a while, or visit friends for several weeks maybe, without saying too much! And that way, they will not have to declare me dead/missing to others since when my NDA expires, we'll be able to reveal what happened.

Then a bunch of people will just come to my group home, pick up my belongings and leave, ending the chapter of my group homes there. I will not be with them because I will be in another meat suit.

If I can't get my procedure the first time, this is understandable.

If it happens this way, then, I will have to be protected. The transition will be a major life event for me. Like a rebirth. I can't miss it.

New flesh means new protocol.

Thankfully some of my friends are in the know.